When we treat rituals as a hall pass for social misconduct, we risk a unique form of spiritual insolvency.
By Syed Mustafa Ahmad
In the grand theater of modern spirituality, a curious paradox has taken center stage. From the quiet sanctity of the home to the bustling cacophony of the marketplace, the air is thick with the rhetoric of divine devotion. We hear a constant, loud exhortation to fulfill the “rights of God”, an adherence to ritual, prayer, and the vertical connection between the Creator and the created. Yet, as one peels back the layers of this outward piety, a troubling reality emerges. While the minarets and pulpits overflow with calls to worship, the horizontal dimension of faith the rights of our fellow human beings is quietly slipping into the shadows.
This disconnect is not merely a theological oversight; it is a structural failure of social and spiritual proportions. Faith is often described as a canopy supported by multiple pillars. If the rights of God represent the central mast, then interpersonal rights, the Huquq-ul-Ibad form the essential outer supports. Without them, the entire structure of society is prone to a sudden and violent collapse. To explore this topic is to navigate a vast and sensitive landscape, yet it is a journey that must be undertaken if we are to move beyond superficial religiosity toward a functional, compassionate civilization.
The crisis begins with an acute lack of awareness. For many, the concept of “human rights” within a spiritual framework has been reduced to a narrow financial ledger. We believe that as long as we do not steal or cheat in business, we have fulfilled our obligations. This is a dangerous simplification. In reality, the scope of interpersonal rights encompasses the subtle and the profound: the weight of a spoken word, the sting of a cold shoulder, and the unseen bruise of a character assassinated through backbiting. While the masses are well-versed in the mechanics of fasting and the logistics of pilgrimage, they remain largely illiterate in the extensive “jurisprudence of the heart” that governs how we treat one neighbors, colleagues, and strangers.
This ignorance breeds a staggering contradiction in character. We witness a phenomenon of the “devout oppressor” individuals who occupy the front rows of the mosque, whose foreheads bear the marks of prostration, yet who see no contradiction in usurping the rights of others or inflicting emotional distress. This double standard is more than a personal flaw; it is a form of spiritual hypocrisy. If the Divine specifically mandates justice and kindness toward others, then ignoring these commands while claiming to love the Creator is an act of audacity born of ego. Such individuals often view others as inferior, trapped in a mire of self-righteousness where their ritualistic diligence blinds them to their moral bankruptcy.
The roots of this erosion are often psychological. Mental maladies such as envy, malice, and arrogance act like termites, hollowed out the foundations of our social interactions. When we allow the progress of others to become a source of personal resentment, the violation of their rights becomes an afterthought. In these moments of jealousy, belief in a higher accountability dissipates into thin air, replaced by a ruthless drive to diminish those we perceive as rivals.
Perhaps the most tragic cause of this decline is the modern negligence of the Hereafter. In contemporary religious discourse, there is a comforting, albeit misplaced, belief that ritual can serve as a universal solvent for social sins. We operate under the delusion that we can “slit the throats” of our fellow humans metaphorically or literally and then wash away the stain with a few ostentatious tears and a heavy donation to charity. However, the spiritual reality is far more rigorous. Accountability on the Day of Judgment is frequently described as beginning not with the rituals performed in private, but with the grievances held by others. The sigh of the oppressed is said to shake the very foundations of the heavens, yet the heedless person, intoxicated by their own perceived piety, continues to crush the weak underfoot, expecting a divine pardon that may never come.
The consequences of this imbalance are visible in the decay of our social fabric. When respect for interpersonal rights vanishes, stability follows. Trust, the essential currency of any functioning community, is replaced by a pervasive atmosphere of suspicion, slander, and falsehood. Beyond the social fallout, there is a profound spiritual cost: the neutralization of worship. When a soul is cluttered with the unsettled debts of human suffering, its supplications often go unanswered. Purity of soul is a prerequisite for the acceptance of prayer, and that purity cannot exist alongside the active oppression of others. The ultimate terror, however, lies in the “bankruptcy” of the afterlife, where good deeds are transferred to victims until the oppressor is left with nothing but the weight of the sins they inflicted on others.
To remedy this, we must overhaul our approach to education and social reform. Our educational systems, both secular and religious, must elevate interpersonal rights to a status equal to that of divine rituals. From the earliest age, children must be taught that the rights of parents, teachers, and neighbors are not optional virtues but mandatory components of a successful life. We must move beyond the rote memorization of texts to the active cultivation of empathy.

Furthermore, we need a conscious campaign to address the psychological roots of these violations. The “pulpit” must evolve to include the language of mental and emotional reform, identifying envy and arrogance as social toxins that must be treated. We must foster a culture of immediate redress—where seeking forgiveness and returning what has been taken is seen as an act of strength rather than a cause for shame. Controlling the tongue, the primary instrument of social destruction, must become a prioritized spiritual discipline.
Ultimately, we must revive a healthy fear of the “oppressed’s sigh.” We must instill the understanding that the Creator acts as the advocate for those who have no other helper. When a person realizes that by hurting another, they are entering into a direct conflict with Divine Justice, they may finally find the restraint that ritual alone has failed to provide.
The erosion of interpersonal rights is a symptom of spiritual and social death. We may adhere to every outward tenet of faith, but if we feel no compunction in breaking a heart or defaming a character, we have missed the mark entirely. Faith is not a vertical line drawn in isolation; it is a cross-section where our love for the Divine meets our duty to the world. The rights of God and the rights of humanity are two sides of the same coin. To neglect one is to devalue the other. The path to true peace does not end at the prayer mat; it begins there and extends into the street, the office, and the home. Only by purifying our interactions and returning the rights of those we have wronged can we hope for our worship to carry any true weight. The accounting of our lives will not just be about how we stood before God, but how we stood by each other.
The views expressed in this article are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the opinions or views of this newspaper
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